Your Wedding, Your Way: Forget the Trends and Celebrate Your Love
- vintageflorrie
- 3 days ago
- 3 min read
Every year, wedding magazines, blogs, and Pinterest feeds are filled with “the latest wedding trends you must have.”
One year it’s pampas grass everywhere, the next it’s neon signs, then everyone’s wearing matching bridesmaid jumpsuits.
While some trends are fun and inspiring, here’s the thing no one says loudly enough…
You don’t have to follow any of them.
Your wedding is a celebration of your love and your values, not a tick-list of what’s fashionable this season.
Why You Don’t Need to Follow Wedding Trends
Trends change quickly — your wedding photos, however, will last a lifetime. In just a few years, that “must-have” detail might feel dated, but the choices that are personal to you will always feel timeless.
Here’s why it’s worth putting trends in their place:
Trends can lead to unnecessary spending. Buying items just because they’re in style might mean overspending on things you don’t even love.
They can overshadow your personality. A wedding styled to match your favourite memories, colours, or places will always feel more “you” than a copy of what’s popular online.
They’re not always planet-friendly. Many trendy décor items are mass-produced, single-use, and destined for landfill. Choosing thoughtfully means reducing waste.
Your Day, Your Vision
At Vintage Florrie, I help couples shape their wedding around their story — not a list of rules. That means we start with your style, your personalities, and your shared values.
You might imagine…
A woodland wedding surrounded by trees, with dappled sunlight falling through the leaves.
A back garden celebration full of fairy lights, mismatched vintage crockery, and a relaxed atmosphere.
A grand country house with elegant vintage details and locally grown seasonal flowers.
A park or outdoor setting with picnic blankets, food vans with locally sourced food, and eco-conscious touches.
Every choice — from location to table settings — can be tailored to reflect you.
Eco-Friendly Favour Ideas That Make a Difference
Wedding favours are one of those traditions that can easily slip into wastefulness. Many couples spend money on items that end up left behind or thrown away.
Instead, you could:
1. Seed Packets or Wildflower Bombs
A lasting, planet-positive gift your guests can take home and grow. Every time those flowers bloom, they’ll think of your day.
2. Potted Herbs or Plants
Rosemary, lavender, or small succulents double as table décor and guest gifts.
3. Charity Donations in Lieu of Favours
This is a deeply meaningful option — instead of buying dozens of trinkets, you make a donation to a charity close to your heart. Whether it’s an animal rescue, environmental charity, or a cause connected to your family, it’s a beautiful way to spread love beyond your wedding day. Small cards on each place setting can explain the donation so guests feel part of the gesture.
4. Handmade, Local Treats
Support small businesses by gifting homemade jams, biscuits, or chocolate from local makers — ideally wrapped in compostable or recyclable packaging.
5. Plantable Stationery
Menus, place cards, or thank-you notes printed on recycled/seeded paper — they look beautiful on the table and grow into wildflowers later.
Styling Without Waste
Sustainable styling doesn’t mean compromising on beauty — in fact, it often leads to the most memorable and creative designs.
I love to work with:
Pre-loved and vintage props that bring character and history.
Repurposed décor (think: using ceremony flowers for the reception, or reusing centrepieces for the cake table).
Seasonal, locally grown flowers to reduce transport emissions and support local growers.
Hire items so you don’t end up storing or discarding piles of wedding décor afterwards.
Not only is this kinder to the planet, but it also often saves you money while adding a unique charm that mass-produced décor can’t match.
Balancing Your Vision and Others’ Expectations
It’s natural to take into account the wishes of parents, friends, or relatives who are helping you plan or contributing financially. But remember — they love you and want you to be happy.
Sometimes, explaining your reasons for certain choices can help them understand. For example:
“We’ve chosen to hire our decor and reduce waste, but we would love to incorporate family heirlooms too.”
“We’re donating to a charity in lieu of favours because it’s close to our hearts.”
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